Elisabeth LaMotte

What’s the difference between gentle parenting and gentle partnering?

By Elisabeth LaMotte / December 1, 2024

Spencer Northey spoke with HuffPost about whether the popular approach of gentle parenting can also be an effect relational strategy in the romantic realm. Gentle parenting is a soft spoken supportive parenting strategy that many parents find enhances their connection with their children and improves listening skills for the family. Several experts made salient points…

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Tell Me Everything

By Elisabeth LaMotte / November 30, 2024

If only we therapists could concoct a reliable strategy to help our clients prevent affairs. If only we could convincingly illuminate the heartbreak and damage and devastation in advance to help motivate adults who find themselves deep in the throes of an intense crush to carve out a different path. The trouble typically is that…

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How can we enjoy Thanksgiving without politics getting in the way?

By Elisabeth LaMotte / November 26, 2024

As a therapist who works with folks from a variety of backgrounds and political perspectives, this is an important question that comes up quite a bit, especially as we head into the Thanksgiving Holiday. It was rewarding to speak with Axios reporter Maya Goldman about how important it is to not allow politics to drive…

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What couples therapy book helps couples transform their connection?

By Elisabeth LaMotte / October 19, 2024

I’ve admired social worker Terry Real for many years. He held an impromptu virtual meeting in mid-March 2020 and invited any practicing therapist to attend. He shared that he has been working virtually for quite a while and expressed his belief that experienced clinicians could indeed pivot from their in-person sessions in order to continue…

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Illinoise

By Elisabeth LaMotte / August 21, 2024

Early adulthood is a rich psychological time when personalities develop more deeply, and individuals begin to cultivate what systems therapists describe as a more grounded sense of self. Early adulthood marks a wonderful but often fraught stage of life full of pondering, pain and possibility. Illinoise, a stunning musical directed and choreographed by Justin Peck,…

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Considering A Career Pivot?

By Elisabeth LaMotte / August 13, 2024

For years now, there has been a dramatic shortage of therapists in the field. Waiting lists at agencies are far too long, and folks in emotional pain need to wait, sometimes for weeks or even months, to receive necessary care. What an inspiration it was to speak with Dr. Brooke Stroud, Dan Duane and Karey…

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Stereophonic

By Elisabeth LaMotte / August 2, 2024

A friend recently introduced me to Bandle – an app that invites users to play name that tune with a twist. The app introduces only one component of the song at a time. With each failed guess, the app splices in one more instrument at a time. I’m a wiz with name that tune; unfortunately,…

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Why Do Therapists Love “I” Statements?

By Elisabeth LaMotte / July 26, 2024

Last week’s NYT’s article does a nice job of outlining some of the strategic advantages of using “I” statements when communicating in our intimate relationships. For example, when a romantic partner says “you never hug me” this sentence is not optimally conducive to inviting a hug. However, saying “I’ve had a horrible day and I…

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Should I consider psychedelic assisted therapy?

By Elisabeth LaMotte / June 26, 2024

Ever since seeing Mary Cosimano MSW and her work featured in the Netflix film Fantastic Fungi, I have hoped to interview her for Social Work Talks. What a thrill it was to finally get on her busy calendar and learn more about her pioneering work in the field of psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Check out our…

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Hit Man

By Elisabeth LaMotte / June 11, 2024

Freudian theory has many limitations and a lot of the original ideas are so sexist they are not even worthy of serious discussion. Nevertheless, Sigmund Freud was the very first to identify and explore the existence of the unconscious mind – a concept that has become central to modern psychology and to understanding human motivations…

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